Male vs. Female Poodles: What are the Differences?

You have decided that the poodle is the right dog breed for you. You have done your research and found the right breeder. One question you are likely to be asked is are you looking for a male puppy or female? This could lead you to ask what is the difference between the two?

Male poodles are more affectionate, playful, and easier to train due to their intense desire to please their owners. Female poodles tend to be more independent, stubborn, and willful than their male poodle counterparts. It’s essential to spend time with any poodle to ensure its temperament fits your family’s needs.

Many people see female poodles as cute and cuddly while being leery that male poodles will have all sorts of “boy” problems. However, with poodles, it can often be the males that are more affectionate and loving and the females that are more dominant and challenging of authority. However, it is essential to spend time with any puppy to ensure its personality is right for you.

A Poodle’s Temperament

The four main words that describe poodles are intelligent, loving, loyal, and mischievous. Despite the regal appearance you often see in highly groomed poodles, they often have a very goofy streak.

They love to play games of any kind. They are also fond of people and like to please those they have bonded to. These character traits combine to make a dog that is easily trained. It can also make them excitable.

A well-trained and exercised poodle will have a calm disposition, as long as the exercise is enough to burn off the naturally high levels of energy that poodles have.

It is a debate whether the smaller toy and miniature poodles are more high-strung or the larger standard size. Their high energy levels lead them to be naturally athletic. Combined with their intelligence, poodles often do well in agility competitions.

Poodles are protective of home and family. They will often bark when strangers approach your house. They can be standoffish with strangers, taking a while to warm up. However, they are warm and loving with their family members. They learn fast, both good and bad habits, so it is essential to be careful about what you are training them to do.

If you’re considering the purchase or adoption of a poodle, check out this article to learn more about exactly what to expect and if a poodle is right for you and your family.

Male Poodle Behaviors

Male dogs in general often get a bad rap because of their “boy” behaviors they engage in, such as marking and humping, if not adequately trained. Many of these behaviors have to do with exerting dominance and marking territory.

Male poodles are not different. Male poodles NEED to be neutered by age 5 months to ensure they do not engage in these typical male territorial behaviors.

Male poodles are more dependent on their owners. They will often bond with one person and not the entire family. They will love the family, but they will choose one family member they prefer.

They can be more sensitive to stress and are more empathetic. Because of this empathetic bond, some poodles have been trained as service dogs.

Male poodles are often more affectionate, playful, and easier to train, including housebreaking. This is often due to their increased desire to please their owners. They are very attentive and can be quite demanding of attention if you do not give them enough.

Many breeders prefer owning male poodles as pets and will often miss the boys from the litters after they are sold.

Female Poodle Behaviors

Female poodles tend to be more independent. They are cute, smart, and affectionate, but not nearly as much as a male typically. Female poodles can be more distant, typically seek less attention.

They often want to be near people, but not necessarily touching them, unlike male dogs. Female dogs can also be more territorial and protective. It is vital to make sure strangers are introduced carefully.

Female dogs often share their loyalty with the whole family. They are less prone to stress about significant life events, such as a new baby in the family or moving. However, they are also often more stubborn and willful. They can care less about people-pleasing if they have decided they want something.

Female poodles can display alpha behaviors if they are not spayed. Even then, they can be more dominant will often try and “boss” other dogs in the house around. Some female poodles will also try and dominant their owners. They can stubbornly resist obedience training. They are often more like a friend you spend time with but are not affectionate with.

Poodles as Working Dogs

When you look at the smaller sizes, it may be hard to believe, but poodles were originally bred as hunters. Their innate athletic abilities come from this breeding still today. Because they are energetic, lovable, intelligent, and highly trainable, poodles have been used in a wide array of jobs, from circus performers to hunting retriever dogs.

Their loyalty has led to standard poodles being used as military and police dogs. When put with other trained dogs, they are often able to learn what is expected by learning from watching the other dogs. This means they can be quickly trained in a variety of settings.

Poodles have been used as service dogs for the disabled and as therapy dogs. They are excellent at fetching and carrying things, attentive to their owner’s health, and are entirely reliable. They seem to be empathetic and can sense their owners sometimes need before the owner does.

Working Male Poodles

Male poodles have been many traits that can make them excellent service dogs. Bonding highly to one family member can help the poodle know they are to help “care for” that family member as a service dog. Highly trained male poodles will often worry about their owner’s health and safety. They do not see it as a job, but as taking care of the person they are bonded to.

A Male poodle’s demand for attention and affection means that the disabled person will need to attend to them. This can help decrease isolation and depressed mood. It will also keep the person busy and give them a purpose.

Working Female Poodles

Female poodles often make excellent therapy dogs because they are able to go into high-stress environments and not be overwhelmed. They often do not become stressed out like male dogs when they are around chronic illness, patients in pain, and almost any therapy job you can imagine. Because they tend to bond to groups, they can also interact better with a larger number of people than a male poodle.

Choosing a Poodle Puppy

When selecting a puppy, you need to not make a decision based just on the sex of the puppy, but on its personality. Taking time with the puppy while it is still with its litter can help you see how they interact with their littermates, mother, and breeder. This can help you get a sense of what each puppy’s personality is likely to develop into.

A puppy that sits off to the side by itself is likely to be more reserved regardless of its sex, while one that bounds out to meet you is likely going to be boisterous and attention-seeking.

Observe the physical condition of the entire litter, but also more closely exam the puppy you are considering. The puppy’s eyes should be clean and bright with pink lids. The nose should be cold and wet, but not running. The puppy should have clean ears with no odor, straight teeth, and not over or underbite.

Seeing their living area can help you determine if they have been well cared for. Is the bedding clean and sanitary? Puppies that have been raised in clean environments are typically healthier and easier to potty train. This can be important if you choose a female puppy that might be more resistant to training, especially if raised in dirty living conditions.

A great behavioral training course can really help your resistant poodle to potty train more easily. I found a fantastic video training system called Brain Training for Dogs.

With this training, I was able to easily potty train my dog Angus. I really loved the online community where I could communicate with other dog owners to get training ideas or help with the whole training process. This is an awesome program and crazy inexpensive! Check it out here to see more detailed information.

Cost of Male and Female Poodles

Poodles are often one of the more expensive purebred dogs. Typically the purchase price is about the same for males and females. Females may cost slightly more if they come already spayed because the cost of spaying is often more than getting a male dog neutered.

When purchasing an unaltered puppy, the cost is usually the same. Just remember to get the puppy spayed or neuter by 5-6 months old to help prevent dominant behaviors. Be prepared that the spay costs will be higher.

I wrote this article on why Poodles are so expensive. In it, you’ll learn more about why Poodles cost more to purchase than most breeds and discover the most important factors to consider when purchasing a Poodle.

Children and Poodles

Poodle, both males, and females can be a wonderful companions for children. Care needs to be taken with Toy Poodles as they are the smallest, most delicate variety of the breed. Children can easily break one of their bones or seriously injure them without meaning to if they are not properly supervised.

Children need to be taught how to approach and interact with all dogs, but especially one that is in your home. Children should be taught to never approach a dog that is eating or sleeping. They should never take a dog’s food away. Children should never be left unsupervised with a dog, no matter how friendly.

Very young children will need closer supervision to ensure they do not pull the dog’s tail or ear, or in some other way harm the dog. Even the nicest dog can bite if they are injured bad enough or in enough pain. Small children often do not mean to harm the dog, they just have not fully learned how to interact.

Important Considerations in Choosing a Male or Female Poodle

When buying a poodle, there are several things you need to consider besides just the sex of the puppy. Even though on average, males and females do show some differences in personality, they all have particular care needs.

• Poodles that are not properly trained will often come to believe they are the alpha dog of the family. The smaller the dog, the more likely this is will occur. By teaching your dog obedience skills and manners, you are showing them that you are the leader of the pack, the alpha dog. Remember, this is especially true of females poodles who tend to exert dominance more than males.

• A bored poodle creates an unhappy owner. Poodles must be kept active both physically and mentally. Obedience training, agility training, playing games can all help keep your poodle happy, healthy, and prevent them from finding destructive or mischievous ways to entertain themselves. This is true, regardless of the sex of the dog. Boys do tend to be more focused on their owners. But even the most affectionate male will get bored while you are at work.

• Owning a poodle is a commitment of time or money to meet their grooming needs. Most poodle owners have their dogs professionally groomed every three to six weeks. Poodles have coats that require lots of upkeep to stay beautiful and healthy. Some people learn to groom their dogs. Although this saves money, it can be very time-consuming.

• Poodles can have weepy eyes that resulted in stained hair surrounding their eyes and face. To help with this, their faces can be gently wiped down daily with pet wipes or a washcloth dipped in warm water.

• Poodles can be prone to specific health and temperament problems. Always buy your poodle, or any dog, from a reputable breeder. They will test for genetic diseases and check for temperament problems prior to putting any puppy for sale.

Final Thoughts

Poodles are extremely intelligent dogs that can be a great addition to any family. With proper care and training, they can add love, laughter, and fun. Males and female poodles are easy to train, protective, and enjoy interacting with people.

In many ways, they are more alike than different. However, it is crucial to know the differences to make sure you purchase the right puppy for you.

Male poodles tend to be more docile, affectionate, and loyal to one family member. Female poodles can exhibit more dominance, be faithful to the family, and be more stubborn.

However, these statements are generalizations and not right for each specific male and female. Which will work better for you depends on your personality, your lifestyle, and the puppy’s personality.

When choosing a puppy, it is important to spend time with the puppy to truly determine its personality.

Using sex can be a starting guideline, but your final decision should be based more on the individual traits of the puppy. Don’t give up the puppy you think will work just right because it may not be the sex you thought you wanted.